PROBLEM: I understand the problem, but I don't fully understand what it's like to experience it.
To find a profitable problem to solve, you must understand what it is like to experience the problem
STEP 3: DEVELOPING EMPATHY
STEP 1 — BUILD YOUR FIRST-CUSTOMER ACQUISITION PLAN
The Problem We’re Solving
“I know who my offer is for and how I want to position it, but I don’t know how to turn that into a practical plan for getting my first customer.”
You have completed the earlier work.
You have:
A validated problem
A validated offer direction
A Best-Fit Customer
A Buying Situation
A clear market position
A differentiation strategy
A Core Message
But knowing all of this does not automatically produce a customer.
You now need to turn your market position into a focused path to your first sale.
Many experts make the mistake of trying everything:
Posting on social media
Sending random DMs
Asking friends for referrals
Running adverts
Joining communities
Creating lead magnets
Attending networking events
They are doing marketing activities, but they don’t have a clear acquisition plan.
The question this step answers is:
“What is my deliberate path from the right prospect to my first paying customer?”
THE EVUNN MINDSET SHIFT
From “I need to market myself” → “I need a deliberate path to the right customer.”
When experts think about getting customers, they often ask:
“How do I promote myself?”
That can lead to random activity.
Instead ask:
“What path will move the right person from being unaware of me to becoming interested enough to have a conversation and consider my offer?”
Your job is not to become visible to everyone.
Your job is to become relevant to the right people.
Think of your acquisition path as:
Right Customer
↓
Right Place
↓
Right Message
↓
Right Entry Point
↓
Conversation
↓
Offer
↓
First Sale
You are not building a sophisticated marketing machine yet.
You are building a focused first-customer path.
📖 SUPPORTING BOOK
The 1-Page Marketing Plan
Author: Allan Dib
The Big Idea
A simple, focused marketing plan is more useful than scattered marketing activity.
The book organizes marketing around three phases:
Before → During → After
For this step, the most relevant part is the Before Phase, where you think about:
Target Market → Message → Reaching Prospects
That fits the beginning of Phase 4 because you already know your target customer and core message from Phase 3.
Now you need to think about how those decisions become a practical acquisition process.
WHAT BUSINESS PROBLEM DOES THIS BOOK SOLVE?
“I know who I want to serve, but I don’t have a clear plan for reaching them and moving them toward becoming customers.”
The book helps connect:
Target Market
↓
Message
↓
Reach
↓
Lead
↓
Customer
For EVUNN, we will use that thinking as a foundation—but simplify it for the immediate objective:
Getting the first customer.
You do not need to build an entire marketing department.
You need a practical acquisition plan you can execute and test.
SHOULD I READ IT NOW?
YES — but selectively.
This is a supporting book, not the main learning journey for this step.
You already completed much of the strategic customer and positioning work in Phase 3.
So don’t read the book as though you are starting marketing from scratch.
Read it to understand how:
Target → Message → Reach
becomes the beginning of a customer acquisition system.
WHICH PARTS MATTER MOST?
Use the actual structure of the book.
ACT I — THE “BEFORE” PHASE
Chapter 1 — Selecting Your Target Market
ESSENTIAL
This reinforces the importance of choosing a specific target market rather than trying to reach everyone.
However, do not redo the Best-Fit Customer exercise.
Bring forward the work you already completed in Phase 3:
Best-Fit Customer
Buying Situation
Problem
Desired Outcome
Buying Trigger
Not-a-Fit Customer
Your job here is to turn that strategic definition into an acquisition target.
Chapter 2 — Crafting Your Message
READ SELECTIVELY
You already created your Core Message in Phase 3.
You do not need to create another positioning or messaging exercise.
Instead, focus on how your message functions when you are trying to attract the right prospect.
Ask:
“What should this person understand about me that makes them want to take the next step?”
Your message should connect with the problem and situation you already validated.
Chapter 3 — Reaching Prospects With Advertising Media
READ SELECTIVELY
This chapter is useful for understanding the idea of reaching prospects through appropriate media.
But don’t interpret it as:
“I need to advertise.”
Your first customer may come through:
Direct outreach
LinkedIn
Referrals
Networking
Workshops
Partnerships
Communities
Content
Email
Advertising
The important lesson is:
You need a deliberate way to reach the people you want to serve.
The specific channel will be tested rather than assumed.
ACT II — THE “DURING” PHASE
Chapter 4 — Capturing Leads
SKIM FOR NOW
This introduces what happens when someone responds to your marketing.
It is useful background, but you do not need to build a sophisticated lead-capture system yet.
Your first customer may simply enter through a:
Conversation
Consultation
Assessment
Referral
Workshop
Direct response
Chapter 5 — Nurturing Leads
SKIM FOR NOW
Some prospects will not buy immediately.
This chapter gives useful context for maintaining the relationship while someone considers a purchase.
But don’t spend your time building elaborate nurture sequences at this stage.
Your immediate objective is:
Get the first customer.
Chapter 6 — Sales Conversion
SKIM FOR NOW
This is relevant because ultimately the prospect has to become a customer.
But EVUNN will deal with the actual sales conversation, diagnosis, offer presentation, resistance and closing in later Phase 4 steps.
For now, understand the overall journey:
Lead → Customer
WHAT SHOULD I SKIP FOR NOW?
ACT III — THE “AFTER” PHASE
Chapter 7 — Delivering A World Class Experience
SKIP FOR NOW.
This becomes important after you have customers.
Chapter 8 — Increasing Customer Lifetime Value
SKIP FOR NOW.
This is more relevant once you have an existing customer base.
Chapter 9 — Orchestrating And Stimulating Referrals
SKIP FOR NOW.
Referrals will eventually become an important acquisition mechanism, but they are not the starting point for getting your first customer.
You can return to these concepts later.
YOUR EVUNN ACTION
BUILD YOUR FIRST-CUSTOMER ACQUISITION PLAN
Now turn your Phase 3 work into a practical plan.
Don’t start from a blank page.
Your previous work should feed directly into this step.
1. DEFINE YOUR ACQUISITION TARGET
Bring forward your Best-Fit Customer.
Who are you trying to reach?
What situation are they in?
What problem are they experiencing?
What outcome do they want?
When are they most likely to seek help?
This becomes your Customer Acquisition Target.
2. DEFINE WHO IS NOT A FIT
Not everyone who could theoretically use your expertise should become your prospect.
Identify:
Who should I NOT spend time trying to acquire?
Consider people who:
Don’t experience the problem
Don’t have the relevant situation
Don’t value the desired outcome
Aren’t ready to act
Fall outside the scope of your offer
This protects you from wasting your limited time.
3. DEFINE YOUR FIRST-CUSTOMER OBJECTIVE
Make the objective specific.
For example:
Acquire my first paying customer within 30 days.
Then work backwards.
If you need:
1 customer
↓
How many qualified conversations might you need?
↓
How many responses might you need?
↓
How many prospects might you need to approach?
You don’t need to know the exact conversion numbers yet.
These are working assumptions that you will replace with real evidence.
4. MAP YOUR ACQUISITION PATH
Decide how you want a prospect to move toward the sale.
For example:
Direct Outreach
Target Prospect
↓
Personalised Outreach
↓
Conversation
↓
Qualification
↓
Offer
↓
First Sale
Or:
Content-Led
Target Prospect
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Relevant Content
↓
Engagement
↓
Entry Point
↓
Conversation
↓
Offer
↓
First Sale
Or:
Referral-Led
Referral
↓
Introduction
↓
Conversation
↓
Qualification
↓
Offer
↓
First Sale
Your path should fit your customer and your offer.
5. IDENTIFY WHERE YOUR CUSTOMERS ALREADY ARE
Bring forward your channel research from Phase 3, Step 8.
Identify the places where your Best-Fit Customers can realistically be reached.
Consider:
Professional networks
Social platforms
Industry communities
Associations
Events
Existing relationships
Referral networks
Online groups
Partnerships
Email
Search
Workshops
But remember:
Being present on a channel does not prove that the channel will acquire customers.
You are looking for potential acquisition environments.
6. CHOOSE YOUR INITIAL CHANNEL HYPOTHESIS
Select:
Primary Channel
Secondary Channel
The secondary channel is optional.
For a first-customer strategy, I would generally rather see you test one channel properly than scatter your effort across five.
Your choice should consider:
Where your Best-Fit Customer actually spends time
How accessible they are
Your ability to reach them
Your offer
Your resources
How quickly you can test
Whether the channel allows meaningful interaction
Most importantly:
Your channel choice is a hypothesis—not a conclusion.
You are not saying:
“LinkedIn is my channel.”
You are saying:
“LinkedIn is currently my best hypothesis. I will test whether it can produce qualified prospects.”
7. DEFINE YOUR CUSTOMER ENTRY POINT
Why should someone take the first step toward you?
Ask:
“What would make this person willing to engage with me?”
Possible entry points include:
Diagnostic
Assessment
Consultation
Workshop
Useful resource
Small paid offer
Trial
Demonstration
Referral introduction
Direct conversation
The entry point should connect to the validated problem.
It should not be an unrelated freebie simply because other businesses use one.
8. DEFINE THE NEXT STEP
For your chosen entry point, answer:
What does the prospect do?
What do they receive?
What happens next?
For example:
Problem-focused LinkedIn post
↓
DM
↓
Diagnostic conversation
↓
Qualification
↓
Offer
The goal is a path that is clear enough to execute and simple enough to test.
9. CREATE YOUR INITIAL ACQUISITION NUMBERS
Create a simple working model.
For example:
50 prospects identified
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50 contacted
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10 responses
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5 conversations
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3 qualified opportunities
↓
2 offers
↓
1 customer
These are not predictions.
They are planning assumptions.
Once you start executing, your real numbers will replace them.
10. DEFINE YOUR WEEKLY ACQUISITION ACTIVITY
Turn the plan into behaviour.
Every week I will:
Identify:
_____ new prospects
Reach:
_____ prospects
Start:
_____ conversations
Follow up:
_____ prospects
Make:
_____ offers
Review:
_____ results
You have now moved from:
“I need customers.”
to:
“Here is exactly what I will do this week to create customer opportunities.”
11. DEFINE WHAT YOU WILL MEASURE
Keep your initial measurement system simple.
Prospects
How many suitable prospects did I identify?
Outreach
How many did I actually contact?
Responses
How many responded?
Conversations
How many conversations happened?
Qualified Opportunities
How many had a genuine need and fit?
Offers
How many offers did I make?
Sales
How many became customers?
These numbers will later become part of your EVUNN Customer Acquisition System.
12. DEFINE YOUR FIRST ACQUISITION EXPERIMENT
Your plan is still a hypothesis.
Choose one part to test.
For example:
“I believe I can find my Best-Fit Customers through LinkedIn using problem-focused outreach.”
Then define:
What will I test?
Who will I test it with?
How many prospects will I approach?
What behaviour am I looking for?
What result would encourage me to continue?
What would make me change the approach?
You will execute this experiment in the next step.
🧠 EVUNN MINDSET CHECKPOINT
Are you avoiding customer acquisition because selling feels uncomfortable?
You may be comfortable with:
Teaching
Advising
Creating
Researching
Solving problems
But uncomfortable with:
Approaching people
Starting commercial conversations
Following up
Making an offer
Asking someone to buy
If this feels uncomfortable, don’t immediately conclude:
“I’m not good at sales.”
You may simply be experiencing the transition from:
Expert → Business Owner
Your expertise creates value.
But a business only exists when that value reaches customers.
Optional Mindset Reading
To Sell Is Human — Daniel H. Pink
Use this only if you are struggling with the belief that selling is somehow incompatible with being a helpful expert.
It is not required reading for Step 1.
🔓 EVUNN EXECUTION TOOLKIT
First-Customer Acquisition Planner
Don’t randomly post, message people or try every marketing channel.
Use the EVUNN First-Customer Acquisition Planner to turn your Best-Fit Customer, buying situation, positioning and Core Message into a focused plan for finding, reaching and moving your first prospects toward a sale.
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YOUR STEP 1 OUTPUT
By the end of this step, you should have a:
FIRST-CUSTOMER ACQUISITION PLAN
Containing:
Best-Fit Customer
↓
Not-a-Fit Customer
↓
First-Customer Objective
↓
Acquisition Path
↓
Potential Acquisition Channels
↓
Primary Channel Hypothesis
↓
Customer Entry Point
↓
Next Step
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Weekly Acquisition Activity
↓
Initial Acquisition Metrics
↓
First Acquisition Experiment
This is not yet a proven acquisition system.
It is your starting hypothesis for getting your first customer.
WHAT YOU SHOULD NOW KNOW
You entered this step with:
“I know who my customer is and what I offer.”
You leave knowing:
“I have a focused plan for finding the right prospects, reaching them, giving them a reason to engage and moving them toward a first conversation.”
But you still don’t have the most important thing:
A list of real people to approach.
Knowing where your customers are is not the same as knowing who you are going to contact.
That is the next step.
NEXT: STEP 2 — BUILD YOUR PROSPECT LIST
Who exactly should I approach first?
To understand their experience, use Book 3. Title: Practical Empathy
Author: Indi Young
Time Investment: 5+ hours (Audiobook)
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The Big Idea from Practical Empathy
Empathy helps you move beyond assumptions and develop a deeper understanding of how people experience problems, situations, what they do, and what matters to them.
For an expert, this is a critical shift. Your expertise tells you what you think the problem is. Empathy helps you understand the problem from their perspective.
What Does this Book Help you Achieve?
Practical Empathy helps you:
Listen without immediately interpreting
Understand people’s experiences more deeply
Separate what people actually say from your assumptions
Make sense of what you hear
Identify patterns across people’s experiences
Use those insights to improve what you create
The goal isn’t to become better at selling.
It’s to become better at understanding.
Should I Read it Now?
YES.
You’ve already explored:
Step 1: What problems might exist?
Step 2: Why might people want to solve them?
Now you need to understand: What is this experience actually like for the person living through it?
Which Chapters Matter Most for me Now?
Chapter 2: Empathy Brings Balance (Essential)
Understand what empathy actually means and why it matters when making decisions about customers.
Chapter 3: Put Empathy to Work (Essential)
Learn how empathy can become part of how you investigate and understand problems.
Chapter 4: A New Way to Listen (Essential)
This is one of the most important chapters for this stage.
Learn to listen to someone’s experience without immediately jumping to solutions, advice or conclusions.
Chapter 5: Make Sense of What You Heard (Essential)
Find out how to process and deepen your understanding of what people tell you.
Chapter 6: Apply Empathy to What You Create (Essential)
Understand how patterns in people’s experiences can influence what you eventually create.
Chapter 1: Business Is Out of Balance (Read this chapter for context only)
It explains why relying only on numbers and analytical thinking can leave important parts of the customer experience invisible.
Skip Chapters 7–9 for now
They focus more heavily on applying empathy within workplaces and organizations.
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Your Step 3 Outcome
By the end of this step, you should have:
A deeper understanding of the experience behind each problem of the 3 problems generated in step 1
A clearer distinction between what you know and what you’re assuming
Initial insight into what people think, feel and do
A better understanding of their frustrations and desired outcomes
A list of questions you still need to investigate with real people
Notice what hasn’t happened yet:
You haven’t validated the problems yet. That’s intentional.
You’ve developed empathy, but empathy based on your own reflection is still not enough.
The next step takes you deeper.
Ready to Put Empathy into Practice?
Reading about empathy is not the same as practising it.
The EVUNN Customer Empathy Toolkit gives you a structured way to examine the problem from the customer’s perspective and separate evidence from assumptions.
One Payment. For All EVUNN Stage 1 toolkits.
What Should I Learn Next?
You now have a better understanding of the customer’s experience.
But there’s another question:
What are they actually trying to accomplish?
A customer may describe a problem, but the problem itself isn’t always the real objective.
They may be trying to make progress toward something bigger.
Step 4: Jobs-to-Be-Done
You’ll move from: Understanding their experience to understanding the progress they’re actually trying to make.
